Sunday, November 22, 2009

A SPOKESMAN-REVIEW INVESTIGATIVE REPORT

Online chat: 12/31/04

dannyboy and therightbi-guy

© The Spokesman-Review 2005

This chat took place in the Gay.com chatroom, where Jim West posted under the screen name therightbi-guy. The name of the person he chatted with on Dec. 31, 2004, has been changed to "dannyboy" to protect his other screen name and identity.

dannyboy: the other night?
therightbi-guy: at the country club. a week ago.
dannyboy: i haven't worked in almost 2 weeks
therightbi-guy: yeah. i said hi don't you remember. it was a christmas party two weeks ago.
dannyboy: oh yeah
therightbi-guy: so did you get a lot of stuff for christmas?
dannyboy: so is work busy today?
therightbi-guy: not at work. everyone has the day off.
therightbi-guy: no school either right?
dannyboy: nope
dannyboy: any hot dates lately?
therightbi-guy: yeah
therightbi-guy: and no snow either.
dannyboy: who did you go out with?
therightbi-guy: what do you mean?
therightbi-guy: oh i didn't see file question about hot dates.
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: no i haven't been out.
therightbi-guy: i'm very cautious as you remember.
dannyboy: i don't understand why
dannyboy: it's better to be true to yourself
therightbi-guy: i bugged you for several months before you got desperate enough to let me meet you.
dannyboy: ha!
therightbi-guy: true.
dannyboy: whatever
dannyboy: i don't get desperate
therightbi-guy: i know, it was a figure of speech
therightbi-guy: i just think i wore you down.
therightbi-guy: or maybe it was the lure of the hot car.
dannyboy: lmao
therightbi-guy: i know what that means i just can't remember.
dannyboy: i'm sure you have a dictionary
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: IMAO?
dannyboy: rofl
dannyboy: yes
dannyboy: haha
therightbi-guy: rolling on floor laughing
dannyboy: gold star for you
therightbi-guy: but IMAO
dannyboy: nevermind
therightbi-guy: i'm never minding.
therightbi-guy: so i bug you,
therightbi-guy: sorry i bug you
therightbi-guy: i mean.
therightbi-guy: i just thought you were nice. still do but understand not much in common.
dannyboy: the number one thing is i'm not chicken shit
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: oh
dannyboy: at least i'm true to myself
dannyboy: still there?
therightbi-guy: oh yeah
therightbi-guy: waiting patiently for the next punch
dannyboy: i'm not punching... just being honest
dannyboy: sometimes the truth hurts...
therightbi-guy: i didn't say it was a low punch. a punch never the less,
dannyboy: so are you disagreeing with me?
therightbi-guy: but it shows you care. and i appreciate that.
dannyboy: i don't care
dannyboy: it's the other people that get hurt in the process that matter
therightbi-guy: i'm sorry i hurt you.
dannyboy: you didn't
dannyboy: not me
therightbi-guy: who then?
dannyboy: others in the general population
therightbi-guy: who then?
dannyboy: the one's that you are deceiving
therightbi-guy: and that would be who?
dannyboy: like i said
therightbi-guy: you sex life is between you and your lover. no one else.
therightbi-guy: two consenting adults.
dannyboy: the general population
dannyboy: true
dannyboy: but i don't mislead people in the process
therightbi-guy: i'm not fucking the general population or sleeping with them either,
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: no,., but they think you are a good "straight" guy
dannyboy: which isn't true
therightbi-guy: no they think i'm a good guy
dannyboy: who is "straight"
therightbi-guy: some think you are str8 and some think you are gay, is it their business? no it isn't.
therightbi-guy: some think i'm str8 and some think i'm gay. is it their business? no it isn't,
dannyboy: i think you are afraid you wouldn't be in the position you are in today if the right-winged supporters knew you like to mess around with guys
therightbi-guy: true consenting adults must have the ability to protect their privacy or else the damn sex nazis will be telling everyone what to do.
therightbi-guy: no, what i don't want to be is known for sex and not policy.
dannyboy: i agree
therightbi-guy: i want to be defined by what i do not who i sleep with.
dannyboy: but you also have to realize that most of the people that support you are normally the ones that don't support what you are doing now.., on a gay website talking to guys of all ages
therightbi-guy: but thats ok.
dannyboy: am i wrong?
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: and some wouldn't like the fact that i drive a $50,000 sports car. or that I like to gamble. or that I do whatever.
dannyboy: haha
therightbi-guy: Danny?
dannyboy: jim
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: this is so stupid
therightbi-guy: you think way too much. i'm sorry i hurt you.
therightbi-guy: it is.
dannyboy: YOU NEVER HURT ME
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: good
dannyboy: there is nothing to hurt
dannyboy: i met you
therightbi-guy: by the way, remember when we met I told you who I was. I didn't try to hide it from you at all. I remember you being surprised when i told you.
therightbi-guy: anyway.
therightbi-guy: i wish you nothing but the best in everything you do.
therightbi-guy: how's the shopping thing going anyway?
dannyboy: fine
therightbi-guy: anything fun?
dannyboy: nope
dannyboy: a new car
therightbi-guy: ok
therightbi-guy: what? a new car?
therightbi-guy: sweet, another lex?
dannyboy: a '05 MB
therightbi-guy: sweet
therightbi-guy: life is berry berry good to you...
dannyboy: it's a joke
therightbi-guy: and i'm a sucker.
dannyboy: how could i afford that?
therightbi-guy: buy it on ebay
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: rob a bank.
dannyboy: not on my list of todo's
therightbi-guy: look i would never think to call you a liar. you're a smart guy and impressive as well.
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: i'm not a liar
therightbi-guy: so you tell me you got a mb i'm going to believe you.
therightbi-guy: i know it was a tease,
therightbi-guy: ;-)
therightbi-guy: i don't know maybe you won the lotto
therightbi-guy: or some old guy died and left you everything.
dannyboy: ha!
therightbi-guy: or the tips have been great this holiday season
therightbi-guy: who knows.
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: i don't get tipped
dannyboy: the rich don't get rich by spending money
therightbi-guy: lucky, you are soooo smart.
dannyboy: i gotta go, i'm just waiting for you to come out of the closet
therightbi-guy: a car is a liability
therightbi-guy: and that would do what for you?
therightbi-guy: would you and I get married then?
dannyboy: prove that you are being honest to yourself
dannyboy: hell no
therightbi-guy: damn
therightbi-guy: DOTE
therightbi-guy: lol
therightbi-guy: enjoy the day.
dannyboy: and you enjoy looking for mister right
dannyboy: or mr. right now_..
dannyboy: whichever you prefer
therightbi-guy: he doesn't exist.
dannyboy: lol r
therightbi-guy: thanks danny
dannyboy: then why are you always on here?
therightbi-guy: i'm bored shitless and it is relaxing,
dannyboy: to talk sex to all these guys
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: I don't really.
therightbi-guy: i just wait to pounce on you.
dannyboy: meaning?
therightbi-guy: i wait here to say hi to you.
dannyboy: thats disturbing
therightbi-guy: yeah it is,
dannyboy: and pretty gross
therightbi-guy: huh?
dannyboy:: like i said... i speak the truth
therightbi-guy: no, you can be a friendly guy.
dannyboy: to my friends
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: thank you. whats gross about saying hi to you.
dannyboy: nevermind
therightbi-guy: ok
therightbi-guy: i thought you were leaving.
dannyboy: it's gross that you wait around in here to do it
dannyboy: i am
dannyboy: adios
therightbi-guy: oh ok.
dannyboy: happy trails in denying yourself
therightbi-guy: seize the day.
therightbi-guy: enjoy_ LOL
dannyboy: happy new years eve
dannyboy: adios
therightbi-guy: thanks friend
therightbi-guy: bye