Sunday, November 22, 2009

A SPOKESMAN-REVIEW INVESTIGATIVE REPORT

Online chat: 11/30/04

dannyboy and therightbi-guy

© The Spokesman-Review 2005

This chat took place in the Gay.com chatroom, where Jim West posted under the screen name therightbi-guy. The name of the person he chatted with on Nov. 30, 2004, has been changed to "dannyboy" to protect his other screen name and identity.

therightbi-guy: hi
dannyboy: wink
dannyboy: hi
dannyboy: sorry, the wink was for the wrong window
therightbi-guy: i liked it frankly.
therightbi-guy: wink wink
dannyboy: is this jimmy?
therightbi-guy: jimmy?
dannyboy: yeah
therightbi-guy: hmmm
dannyboy: hmmm
dannyboy: yeh or neh?
therightbi-guy: don't go by jimmy. no one ever calls me that.
dannyboy: jim?
dannyboy: is that better?
dannyboy: or james
dannyboy: or Mr. W.
therightbi-guy: yes
therightbi-guy: yes
dannyboy: like the prez
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: yes
therighttbi-guy: wink
dannyboy: so how's life?
therightbi-guy: good
therightbi-guy: life is good
dannyboy: what's new?
therightbi-guy: how are you doing?
therightbi-guy: not much.
dannyboy: doing great
dannyboy: work is picking up again
therightbi-guy: great as well
therightbi-guy: good, yeah, Christmas parties huh?
therightbi-guy: thanks for chatting with me.
dannyboy: np
dannyboy: anything fun and exciting going on in the big city?
therightbi-guy: not at all really.
therightbi-guy: how about you? you have that bf yet?
dannyboy: not yet
dannyboy: still searching
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: lol
therightbi-guy: living at home still?
dannyboy: how about you?
therightbi-guy: no
therightbi-guy: you know i'm pretty cautious.
dannyboy: have you been looking in the right plaoes?
dannyboy: why?
therightbi-guy: right places?
dannyboy: you need to go out
therightbi-guy: a guy has to be pretty special for me to meet.
dannyboy: i guess so
therightbi-guy: i'd love to go out with you but know it's probably not going to happen.
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: you still living at home?
dannyboy: how are you liking the snow?
therightbi-guy: i managed well but a whole lot of people had big problems
therightbi-guy: how's the holiday shopping going?
dannyboy: going great
dannyboy: i think i'm just gonna buy myself and louis bag and say fuck y'all to everyone else
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: u?
therightbi-guy: louis bag?
therightbi-guy: you are not getting me anything?
dannyboy: after buying myself a $2000 bag
dannyboy: no
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: what is a louis bag?
dannyboy; louis vuitton
therightbi-guy: is that like a handbag
dannyboy: a suitcase/daybag/messenger bag
therightbi-guy; oh,
therightbi-gay: so what are you getting me?
dannyboy: coal
dannyboy: i dunno
dannyboy: what do i get
dannyboy: ur lex?
therightbi-guy: sweet
therightbi-guy; i get to keep it?
therightbi-guy: you know that is a nice car
dannyboy: yup
dannyboy: i'll have one in a bit
therightbi-guy: really?
therightbi-guy: there's one for sale downtown for $49,950
dannyboy: color?
therightbi-guy: silver
dannyboy: gross
dannyboy: i want black w/ tan interior
therightbi-guy; very nice car. have you searched the web yet?
dannyboy: a little
dannyboy: found a couple in the seattle/portland area
therightbi-guy: cool
dannyboy: mhmm
therightbi-guy: yeah
dannyboy: i think I need to go j/o
dannyboy: then go to bed
therightbi-guy: i'd love to help
therightbi-guy: did i ever tell you that you kiss really well.
dannyboy: really?
therightbi-guy: oh my gosh yes.
therightbi-guy: you were good.
dannyboy: uh … thanx
dannyboy: so... are you a full time man lover?
therightbi-guy: sorry to embarrass you.
therightbi-guy: no
dannyboy: why not?
therightbi-guy: because i also like women.
dannyboy: hmm
therightbi-guy: just like men once in awhile.
therightbi-guy: can you believe that?
dannyboy: are you more into younger guys like me?
dannyboy: not really
therightbi-guy: it's true
dannyboy: but to each his own
therightbi-guy: yes
dannyboy: i'm not one to judge
dannyboy: ok
therightbi-guy: i like youth.
dannyboy: so what are your limits?
therightbi-guy: how so?
dannyboy: what do you like about youth?
therightbi-guy: energy,
therightbi-guy: wonder,
dannyboy: personally i like the tight ass
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: but thats just me
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: their hopes for the future. and their whole life in front of them
dannyboy: so their innocence?
therightbi-guy: no, i don't think. i didn't think of you as an innocent
dannyboy: thats good... cuz i'm not
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: but just youth in general
therightbi-guy: yeah
therightbi-guy: 20s and early 30s
therightbi-guy: maybe it's about that was a great time of my life.
dannyboy: i'm more into high school
dannyboy: the whole hot straight jock thing
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: maybe i'm trying to relive my youth through others.
therightbi-guy: really?
dannyboy: what do you mean?
therightbi-guy: you really like the str8 jocks?
dannyboy: they just seem like the hot innocent ones
therightbi-guy: ah
therightbi-guy: i would never touch a high school kid.
therightbi-guy: that if i ever got to mess around with... nothing would come of it
dannyboy: fuck i would
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: why not?
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: they aren't ready yet.
dannyboy: why not?
therightbi-guy: too young
therightbi-guy: but maybe if i was your age it would be ok
dannyboy: have you always been interested in guys?
therightbi-guy: don't know.
dannyboy: how do you not know?
therightbi-guy: wasn't all that interested in sex until college
therightbi-guy: and then i was into girls
dannyboy: thats crazy
therightbi-guy: curious about guys but interested in girls.
dannyboy: every high school guy is interested in sex
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: yeah
dannyboy: so you never did anything?
therightbi-guy: beat off
dannyboy: haha
therightbi-guy: i was soooooo str8 laced
dannyboy: nr crazy
therightbi-guy: maybe
therightbi-guy: but i don't think so.
dannyboy: hmm
therightbi-guy: remember when i was a kid sex was taboo
dannyboy: so when was the first time you messed around with a guy... if you don't mind me asking?
therightbi-guy: we didn't talk about it like they do today.
dannyboy: yeah
therightbi-guy: college
therightbi-guy: in my frat
therightbi-guy: one of the older guys was gay,
therightbi-guy: everyone knew it and he didn't really hide it but was so handsome he had girlfriends all the time.
therightbi-guy: it was funny
dannyboy: so what did you do?
therightbi-guy: well he kept hitting on me and i spent a year and a half fighting him off.
therightbi-guy: then one night he brought this other guy to my apartment
therightbi-guy: this other guy was a guy he was hitting on too.
dannyboy: and...
therightbi-guy: we all drank and talked and then the gay guy had to go to work on the graveyard shift.
therightbi-guy: the other guy and I talked about being hit on and how we weren't interested in being gay.
dannyboy: so what happened?
therightbi-guy: would never he gay.
dannyboy: why not?
therightbi-guy: because in those days it was like death. well we got curious about what it was all about so we stripped and
dannyboy: did you have sex?
therightbi-guy: got into bed and rolled around naked and stroked each other off. nothing more. but it was hot.
therightbi-guy: didn't kiss, didn't suck, didn't fuck.
dannyboy: have you ever fucked?
therightbi-guy: nope
dannyboy: why not?
therightbi-guy: no interest
dannyboy: whats the most you've done?
therightbi-guy: about what we did together.
dannyboy: oh
therightbi-guy: took me a long time to kiss
dannyboy: hmm
therightbi-guy: can i ever see you again?
dannyboy: dunno
dannyboy: what do you want to do with me?
therightbi-guy: to get to know you better.
dannyboy: ahh
therightbi-guy: to hold you.
therightbi-guy: to kiss you_
dannyboy: what is one of your wildest fantasies?
therightbi-guy: to cuddle with you.
therightbi-guy: to be hiking in the forest and come across a mtn lake and strip and skinny dip and have a guy jump in with me.
dannyboy: u like to hike?
therightbi-guy: i love it
therightbi-guy: do you?
dannyboy: where does that stem from?
therightbi-guy: i'm an outdoor guy
dannyboy: no...
therightbi-guy: we camped a lot when i was a kid
dannyboy: with ur family?
therightbi-guy: i used to hike alone to think and be with my thoughts.
therightbi-guy: yeah
dannyboy: cool
therightbi-guy: ya
dannyboy: have you ever hooked up w/ anybody else off of here?
dannyboy: u there?
therightbi-guy: sorry
therightbi-guy: yes i'm here.
therightbi-guy: i have
dannyboy: who have you met with?
therightbi-guy: but again very cautiuos
therightbi-guy: never tell.
therightbi-guy: would you?
dannyboy: yes
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: who was it?
dannyboy: cum on....
dannyboy: i wanna know
dannyboy: just to see if i know him
therightbi-guy: nope
dannyboy: why not?
therightbi-guy: if someone asked you about me would you tell them?
dannyboy: no, y?
therightbi-guy: well i wouldn't give anyone else up either.
therightbi-guy: by the way, i didn't think you would.
dannyboy: well... are they a friend of mine?
dannyboy: or how old are they?
therightbi-guy: how would i know that?
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: well let's just say this, they were not in high school
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: thats cheating
dannyboy: like my age?
therightbi-guy: what is?
therightbi-guy: older than you
dannyboy: lol
dannyboy: what is today?
dannyboy: i'm so bad with days
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: tuesday
dannyboy: lol, i know that
dannyboy: what is the date though?
therightbi-guy: 11/30
dannyboy: i'm trying to write a paper,,, and i have to date it
dannyboy: lol
therightbi-guy: why?
dannyboy: ok
therightbi-guy: oh
therightbi-guy: how's school?
dannyboy: great
dannyboy: hey... i have to run
therightbi-guy: i'd like to see you again...